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What would you do if your man blew off a steak dinner with you to...?

Go drink at his friend's house? Especially since it's Valentine's Day and he could just as well have drank at home AND had the steak and some romance?

Public Comments

1. I would eat my steak and his and leave him no dinner
2. It's no big deal, people do it all the time. If he wants to leave then leave..you can make plans too. It's not like he will gone forever. Valentines?...it's another day for me.
3. feed it to a lonely dog.
4. I would go have steak and romance with someone else. Or I would make him think I did.
5. that is messed up i wud deff first dont waste the dinner lol den wen he comes home just dont give him any dinner or romance see how he likes it
6. I would personally thank Hallmark for giving you a 2nd portion of steak. Open a bottle of wine, and take a relaxing bath indulging yourself in every guilty pleasure immaginable, and when he get's home.. Just don't be in the mood. =)
7. Funny many men answer just like one of posters here. (Its Just Another Day) My husband use to be just like your man. I didnt like it. So the next time we met friends I asked the other couple what they did "last Valentines Day?" When they got done telling us all about it. I told them what a DAWG my man was. IT worked. Got presents every year now! Last year it was 3 days in Vegas. This year its 24 white and red roses! Breakfast in bed!!!
8. The next time that happens, please email me and Ill be right over so you wont have to eat alone with no strings attached
9. Tell him to kick rocks and go find a new man that is into you
10. How old is this guy anyway? And how long have you two been together? Did he know what you had planned? Did he change his mind at the last minute? Sounds like the two of you find different things to be important in the relationship department. Talk with him when he gets home. Let him know what you wanted to do this evening and ask him for an explanation of his behavior. If you two can't get on the same page with this, you may want to re-think things. He is who he is and if he does things like this all the time, he is not likely to change for you or anyone.
11. Well, it doesn't sound like he IS your man. At least he was someone else's man for this evening. Is he angry with you for some reason? What do you think he was avoiding? Could it have been the steak? Talk with him about the problem in your relationship, but wait until he has had a night to sleep off the drinking binge.
12. If the two of you are not married then he still feels he can do what he wants when he wants. If i were you i would take what he did as a message that he feels he is under no obligation to you and he doesn't want you to think that he is.He just let you know what was more important and it sure wasn't a steak dinner with you but drinking with his friends. Who's to say he didn't have some romance at his friends house. Something or someone was more important to him sorry to say.Maybe there is someone else in his life who he rather spend valentines day with. Could he be mad at you for something you did ?
13. That sucks. If he's your husband, that really sucks. I would eat my food. I would put his in the fridge, leave the mess in the kitchen and go to bed early. No way in hell would I stay up and wait for him. Are you sure he's going to a guy friend's? Unless you have a sucky marriage or you husband is going to be with another chick, there's not much reason a guy would blow off a good meal and sex with his wife to go to a buddy's house. I would be a little concerned if my husband blew off steak and sex with me on Valentine's to go to someone else's house. We're not even big into Valentine's Day, but a guy would have to be a real jerk to do that.
14. No guy would give up the fun after the steak to go have a drink with his friends. I think you are hiding something. There is something that you have done, maybe not today, maybe in the past that has hurt him and thats why he's behaving this way. If you feel there is nothing, then he's probably cheating on you or gay with his friend.
15. Use this as an opportunity to surprise him! Take a nice long hot bubble bath! Get dressed up! Put some music on. Light some candles. Make the house nice and romantic for when he does return. If he comes home after you've gone to bed, don't say a word to him about this night. He should find a way to make it up to you by his own guilt.
16. Valentine's Day or not, I'd wonder why he felt being with his friend was more important than the plans you already had...assuming you had discussed these plans together beforehand. Not a good sign.